Sunday, May 20, 2012

Satyamev Jayate

I just finished watching my Sunday afternoon Amir Khan's show Satyamev Jayate on "Big Fat Indian Wedding." It took me back to my teenage days. How "him" and I are madly in love. We loved each other so much that we had never bothered to get married or even think about getting married. But yes! He did asked me to hold his hands and take him to my mother, to declare our relationship but I wasn't ready, I was too afraid and chicken to face it to my mom. So I lost him forever and I can't blame him for it. We both did the right thing, but one thing for sure his love had showed me the best quality of men. Every single minute, day, night,month, and years, I had been loved. We lived a life of ideal spouse. For me, he was my ideal man but we never crossed our boundary to hurt ourselves. If not for him, today I can never be able to appreciate the best and worst qualities of men. If not for him, today I would had been married to my childhood friend who deleted all the songs from my iPhod without my knowledge and be locked inside the four walls of home where a love married bride will be treated worst then maid servent. If not for him, today I would had been in polygamy marriage. Thank god! For making me "who I'm." No matter what,no women should lie to themselves. To hell with what society thinks; after all I wasn't born in this world to kiss your ass.

An error of two big words..

An error of two big words,,,
One huge world, very little space,,,
too many characters, very little role,,,
begins with "you" and ends with "myself"
Oh Almighty! Why so many rules?
One simple meaning from two different hearts,,,
Love someone because "you love them"
not because "you love yourself."

Saturday, May 19, 2012

Can someone please help Bengal CM MUMTA!!!!

Omg! Bechariiiiii, needs big help on how to have thick skin & to fool viewers or interviewers. I feel sorry for her. She has long way to go,,,
Alright! I'm sure Mayawati is no less then her in terms of dabangiri. She can slap her security guy and make them almost lick her shoes but at least she knows how to play politics safe. Including Sonia Gandhi, these two women always turned down for interview & rather play it safe but Mumta, that too after all that Janta hate,,why did she even agreed to be on prime time? Pity! I guess this is what happens when one lacks brain. I hardly know anything about "A'ma" but at least I haven't heard or seen her given any chance to any of these tv news anchors to make fool out of her. Sad, very sad "Di." All the best of luck to the lady who have came this far at least. God bless!!!! Meanwhile, I had superb lunch with Dikki and love those gifts that she bought me from India. Now it's time to have some fun!

Friday, May 18, 2012

Easy Meat Consumed By Illiterate/Uncivilized Cave Men?

What's the definition of cave men? Men who gives up everything and decides to spend rest of his life in some cave up in remote mountains for world peace or is it the uncivilized men who've no knowledge of the existence of other human culture and knows nothing besides hunting for a piece of flesh?

I wondered????

As time passed,medieval had stormed in & left, followed by both World War I and II. One was an age of human slaughtering where society was ruled by lazy self appointed civil servants. And of course women had very little respect and value in dark age. The only thing we were taught was if women matters it was only their piece of flesh that men lust for and they'll not be spared without any mercy! Men can have any however & whenever they lust for it unless you're the brave Hindu warrior "Jahansi Ki Rani." But by 21st century the cave men had become so wise that they had even start screwing up with other people's territory with countless excuse that they had came up with yet men take so much pride in zero human value. But in an age of millennium, Tibetans had hit 50 years in exile. His Holiness The Dalai Lama celebrated his good 50 years outside his once "isolated home" Tibet. Within that 50 years we are no longer trapped inside the mountains. We've been taught the people in exile are all just as our own brothers and sisters. In fact at homes we were taught how badly we are behind this rat race and by now, within this 50 years our spiritual Guru/Rinpoche has crossed all the oceans and opened the eyes of countless westerners, including many noble families of India, our home away from home. In east,India provide us our newly home, almost as if it's our birth right. Yes call it our KARMA! In the west our spiritual gurus had accepted "white, black, brown" as our own people & taught them our Buddha Dharma. Our parents and gurus had raised us to think "large" in terms of human culture and value. Perhaps that's the only reason to our existence. If it's not the matter of "trust" by now anybody can comfortably say by now we can mingle with any shapes and size. After all I was taught we are all nothing at end and the circle of our birth is rather our "home with one big family with children's of all shades of colors." Within that 50 years, our parents had disciplined themselves so well that most of them even got ride/ over come with their polygamy marriage and we never needed any superstar to desperately show cast it on television to ban such a ancient costume that no longer fits in nor possible to survive in today's highly educated world. Our parents were also well disciplined that they no longer live with their siblings as they did back in dark age. After marriages, they all lived on their own, wherever, however they had liked, on their own feet. Neither we as a child were taught any differently. When our elder sisters get married, we are encouraged to give lots of space to her newly home and family. Yes! That's what being cultured people means in our dictionary. Neither we had any sali/biwi as sexual wedding package jokes nor our parents believed in stalking their married daughters and burning their daughter in law for "wealth." Neither our spiritual gurus had looked at "white" women as easy meat nor the "black and brown" as their slaves and shamelessly make them do things for them. In return, the fair games lies in how much the world has to offer us. Today, we can live everywhere in the world and still be able to enjoy and practice/ follow our own culture, faith and nobody stops us or questions our different identity. Then I wonder what made some of those Asian people from UK target young white women as "easy meat & fair game to sexually assault them." Are these people still too hypocrites or did they took chick flick films like American Pie, American Beauty, and White Chicks too seriously?????? I bet only they knows what was on their head before they got enrolled in jail! If this is the attitude of modern men, then god safe the world. As of us(Tibetans) we had came a long way & thankfully in ordered to be cultured & civilized citizen of this world,our circumstance and cultured parents has taught the fair game of what needs tobe stored and what needs to be recycle from very early age. Rest, sadly still seem to be living in a world of cave men. May someday they open up their eyes & minds to enjoy this beautiful mother nature. After all is there any difference between hell and jail? Perhaps not!


PS. Treat every women as how you like to be treated & well done lady Warsi!

Thursday, May 17, 2012

iQUIT!

Seriously, I don't know why some people are crazy & dumb to get in to such a mess. Eventually that wasn't even her business or profession as well. I guess, some people take their writing too seriously or was it because of the people she's around that encourage her to get into such a mess. Either way, I still remember my first encounter with her and all I remember was she's full of herself with her blogs and the articles that she write on other people or for other people. From then & there I sensed some serious trouble. Thank god! I don't take twitter or blogging seriously. My only intension to these social network is to write some of my deep philosophy, feelings, & share opinion with my followers. As well as to learn from those intelligent and funny handles who always amuses us with their daily dose of humor. Oh well, I guess everything has limit & I'm glad by now I'm over with it. But feeling sorry for those victims who take their "writing" way too serious & cross all the boundary without any sense of responsibility. I wish god give some brain & wisdom to such a people as well.
Peace out!
PS. My co worker was telling me about her twitter experience & she said, "I only follow celebs & I don't have twitter, is twitter free?"

Now what can I say??

I'm speechless,,,,
I must say ignorant sure is a bless!!!!!

Talking about innocence, it remind me of my year 05, India and Nepal trip. Here are some of the pictures from my cousin sister's school in Nepal. They are all her purana employes children. They are being taken very good care of her, like her own family members. At this young age, they are extremely talented in reading, writing, and sports. Earlier, when I was at home I can hear them reciting their loud english poem all the way up, but as soon as I got ready and went out, they had prepared a traditional Nepali dance number for their (American didi) me ofcourse. Stay tune for the video clip that I uploaded on youtube centuries ago. lol Super cute I must say!!!
                                         (That's me in Salwar, looking just like one of them) :-)
Now, that's a achievement of single woman with heart of ocean and mind/determination of sun! 

Meanwhile, the opposite thinker and bad news of losers can be quoted as: "She who has no respect to doctors and saints; what can she offer her children at their dinner table? Nor health, nor wisdom/class." :(

Monday, May 14, 2012

Happy (A'ma) Mother's Day!

Happy Mother's Day A'ma La,,,, 
Your warm heart has taught me compassion toward others,,,
Your presence and care has protected me like an "Angel" with iron wings,,, 
Your strength and sophisticate has determinate me to be the best with great sense of dignity,,,
Your sharp wisdom and vision has shaped my mind and guided me in this world of bewildered,,,,
Your faith to Buddha Dharma has gifted me the key moral ethics in an age of new millennium,,,,,
Your day is equivalent to my own birthday,,, after all "you" and "your pride" are the reason to my existence. 

:-)


Yes! you're the best mother in the entire world<3



  

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Best facial cream in the world!

Cetaphil

From Fair&lovely, Ponds, Clinique, Estee Lauder, or Lancome, I had discovered (Cetaphil) is the best experienced I had so far and I just can't resist. Two years ago when my nephew was just a baby I got in to accident and reside at my sister's place for a month so that they can take good care of me. That's when I start using my nephew's lotion and felt in love with it. It is dermatologist number #1 recommended
but it doesn't belong to mainstream moisturizer categories. They never had so many different varieties of it until now. Earlier it used to be just for the purpose of body lotion, specially for infants that has super sensitive skin. I had started consuming it when they only had only one kind for all the skin types but now, I see that there's one for all kinds of skin type. Over the years I had discovered the secret to its success is its natural substance which lack all those acid and chemical substance that they add while trying to bring out the best out of their product for short term purpose and mainly relates to either to get ride of wrinkles or freckles but who needs those when we haven't even reached that age yet. I pity anybody who consume facial creams like Olay! Yuck!!!! I have a feeling these kind of extremely high advertised cream are good for nothing but to make money out of it. To all those young and gorgeous ladies out there, do check out this cream, I'm sure you'll fall in love with it as much. It's only around $5.00 as well, very reasonable price as well. After it's arrival at my life, I had never once touched those high profile creams from above companies that are still lying uselessly by my bathroom sink. Yes! I did paid 90% more price to those then the one that I'm in love with right now. Ladies shop wisely and hope it will work with you all as much as it did to me. 

PS. I recommended it to my cousin sister who's also nurse from India but she mentioned in India they just can't get it from over the counter yet since it's still under doctor's prescription. So good luck finding it if you're interested.
(A year after Cetaphil ka kamal & me happy; may you get the same result). LOL