Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Fairy tale Versus Reality Show!

Life from fairy tale Balika Vadhu home to reality show Big Boss house!

Every day we learn something new. And no! Not the ones that we learn from our parents or at home but the ones that we learn from our own observation, experience, and action. Loving it and I'm in debt to those who I've come across day in and out and opened my eyes. Priceless! Meanwhile, I've no shame to admit that yes I did came from one of those (Balika Vadhu homes) where we blindly follow those rules that has been set by our elders. In other words, in our own small world nothing matters besides providing the best meals to our family members; being locked up in our own home and still manage to get everything that we had ever wanted or fantasied and completely be happy. Often, in worst case I feel like I took it for granted; arrange marriage affair at the age of 15 meaning I've no choice to freely fall in love with someone as much as I had like to (not even with my own people). Fortunately, I took all that very seriously even thought I did broke some rules and made some errors here and there. If not for those mistakes, would I ever get to know the real shades of people? Would I ever get to live life in my own term? Will I ever get to age and die with the person/companion that I had wish to? Or at least be able to make love and sleep peacefully with him if not to die with. Yes, I wondered????? If not for this journey from fairy tale home to real world house (where we learn everything from other people's view), can I possibly be able to balance this positive and negative energy within me? I don't think so! Therefor, life goes on and learn as we will live forever and live as we will die tomorrow! Cheers & Happy 26th Birthday to me!

Saturday, November 12, 2011

Sajan Sajan O Meri Sajan.......


It's the month of children's day! The songs of film sajan seem like it happened just yesterday.

I think almost all the girls, including (myself) thought we're Madhuri Dixit and of course the most beautiful girl in the world when we were in class 1 and up till 12th. ha ha ha
And then we grew up to be Jahansi Ki Rani instead: We became a women & dedicated ourself to our family, friends, and community! Every day, I wake up to look at mirror not just to admire myself but achieve something for others. Priceless!!!!! Sometimes, when things get little depressing at this dull adult world, I go back to my childhood by visiting my old school, homes, and the town in India or watch some of Madhuri Dixit's films or songs. haha Seriously, Sajan was the first film of her that I watched in theater when I was in first grade and loved it. Things like that used entertain us as a kid apart from Delhi Abu Gar, pure joy! Till then enjoy this video. I know I've grown up but what can I say "Dil To Bacha Hai Ji" and part of me still adores man who writes well from his heart and sincerely express his emotions and values. Adorable, I tell yeah. The only thing that's missing between me and him is that he needs to start writing for me. So that I can bring back my high school dancing skills and dance on his tune. Possible? I'll leave it up to the almighty!
 ~Bohot pyari karti hain tum ko sanam; kasam cahahain layloo khuda ki kasam~


Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Twitter or Big Boss house choice is yours!!!

Mahatma Gandhi's three wise monkeys!
The tittle of this blog reminds me of the bygone teenage days in High School when one of my senior girl used to show off her so call part time modeling skills to us (tiny tinny) girls. By going: "J. Crew or Banana Republic; choice is yours." Despite the fact that she can be such a bad influence to us or any young girls. I personally, never liked, admired, or was friendly with her. But still, (life goes on as the mantra of my life), I've manage to neglect her bad and negative energy! But after nine long years who would had thought that someday I will be overwhelmed by this same sort of negative enthusiasm. Yeap! ~Welcome to the world of Twitter and Big Boss House~
I started this twitter business because my impression was it's a great platform to exchange each other's ideas, opinions and in return I'll gain some newfound wisdom and gossip at the same time. I keep on following random celebrities, news channels, mega stars, politicians, boy/girl next door, family, & friends all on my timeline just to read what they had to say without knowing someday that temptation will lead me in "too much information" (TMI Phase). And decided to iQUIT from that space, just the way Raageshwari did to Big Boss House,and Shashi Tharoor from politics (congress party) not that we're too good to be true but I've learned both space has one thing in common; "the word & mind game." It doesn't matter what is consider appropriate, rude, or wise as long as you can scream as loud as you could, you get the TRP! Just then, my choice is rather to follow the three wise monkey's proverb. 
I see no evil, I speak no evil, and I hear no evil! 

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

What's hot & cold in man!

Coming soon!
Ok I've to change the tittle due to be politically correct! What I write here is only from my own perspective & therefore, I don't think I've right to tag anyone as "not hot." The word is just too direct & not fitting my views. So I rather choose to stick with "cold."Alright, time to finish up this hot & cold business.
Well, picture speaks more then thousand words..........